It's not that I want to rely on you.. it's just that I feel that's how a 'tag team' works. We support each other, isn't it? I'm perfectly fine looking after the kid on my own. Don't criticize the way I do things. You are not me. Just because you are comfortable leaving the kid on her own doesn't mean that I feel the same.
It's the same as how I never criticized the way you all treat a 12 yr old like she's 5. That's the one who should learn to be independent. Not my 2 yr old. If the 12 yr old can't take simple instructions and initiative, don't expect the 2 year old can. Stop the comparisons.
I treat you like the maid? Who's the one who gets to ride every weekend and who ends up looking after the kid(s)? You asked me to go for the mj session and I did. End up I need to take your sarcastic remarks? I don't need that. Thanks.
And I'm truly upset. So it makes perfect sense for me to not want to talk to you. If you think you are talking to a wall.. you made me into one. Only a wall will be able to withstand the unhappiness and not show it. Anyway even if the wall did, you'll be too insensitive to notice.
Feeling super frustrated. I'm going to bed.